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Introductions and a few things about me

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My journey began many years ago, back in 1998…

Even though I’ve lived here in Germany for over 20 years, I am still an American.  In 1998, I was living in my very own house that was on the beach in Florida.  My life was good and nothing failed, except that which most people so fervently search for –   LOVE.  It just so happened that one evening, I was on the computer that I’d just bought and set up just a few days before, and an Instant Message through AOL came up on my screen. It was a message from a man that lived in Germany.

Back then, I knew nothing about Germany, and I had no intention of learning anything about the country because I had always been totally enamored by England, and to live in that lovely country was my greatest desire.  I nicely told the gentleman from Germany to piss off, but every evening, there he was, like one of those shit-house-flies that wouldn’t go away.  He must have sat there for hours until I went online (I didn’t know it then, but nowadays, we call that stalking).  After about two weeks of trying to get rid of him (I hadn’t learned about blocking anyone on the new computer yet), I finally gave in and talked with him.  What a charmer he was. He told me that all he wanted was to practice his German speaking skills.  Well, eventually, the Instant Messages ended up turning into telephone calls…from him.  The man had a voice as smooth and rich as melted milk chocolate and his accent was more than delightful.

To make a long story short,  after thousands of ‘Deutsch-marks’ that he had spent to call me every day, brown paper packages tied up with string & filled with my favorite yummy nibbles, huge bouquets of roses and what I thought were heartfelt declarations of love, I ended up moving here and marrying the dude.  Humm.  When I moved there, I couldn’t speak German…yes, no, and thank you was about the extent of my German speaking skills. Just great! Aarrrgggh!

At that time, I was a Catholic-Christian and yes, I went to church every Sunday, read the Bible and prayed before every meal and before I went beddy-bye, it all meant a lot to me.  It seemed as though he knew my type and he also knew how to get under my skin – in the most positive way.  He very easily ended up clinching the deal of me coming to Germany and becoming his wife by telling me that he felt that we had the same religious practices.  Hmmm.  Errr, I believed him. Damn!

He took me to church and I quickly ascertained that they were speaking in a language that was totally different than what I was expecting.  I was frustrated.  He was happy.  After about two more tries of church….I finally gave up.  He was ecstatic.  His true colors were beginning to show.   I felt lost.  He felt in total control.  My heart grew heavier.  He grew colder and more distant.  My tears flowed like rivers.  He watched TV.

One week, he had to go away on business.  I was stuck in that dark, basement apartment and the loneliness began to creep in on me.  I got on the computer to try to find anyone who would talk with me because I just couldn’t take it any longer.  I didn’t find anyone who would give in to the fact they could speak English and that brought me down even further than I had ever been, but luckily, not for too long, because I ended up finding something else, something that filled me with a spark hope.

A plethora of feelings and emotions began to swirl within me.  I began to feel somewhat energized when I found a lovely website on Spiritual things, but I also felt afraid because of my Christian beliefs.  But then I began to think about how Catholicism and Christianity hadn’t helped me to avoid a situation that took away what I thought were the best years of my life.  I made a decision.

I, for once, didn’t follow the old, out-dated rules and teachings of my life in America.  Instead, I decided to follow my heart and my desires, and I took a VERY long look at the wonderful, hope-giving website that had caught my attention.  It was like I was finding out about a new world…possibly a new-found-life!  However, I was still a bit afraid that the devil that I was told I had to believe in was going to take me straight to hell, but at the same time, I was pumped because I was beginning to feel alive again.

A ray of light, a ray of hope was beginning to fill the dark, empty space that had been my lonely, depressing life in Germany.

The light in my life was getting brighter and I was beginning the journey of healing and strengthening my body, mind, and soul…

Namaste ♥

 

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The Effects of Jogging Every Day By Lisa Maloney

Jogging every day offers numerous health benefits, but be aware of the risk of overtraining.
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Jogging every day offers a host of potential benefits, including a stronger immune system, better stamina, weight loss, less risk of chronic diseases and a natural mood boost. However, it also poses a couple of potential risks, including the possibility of overtraining.

The Benefits of Jogging Regularly

Health.gov’s Dietary Guidelines for Americans recommends that adults should get at least 150 minutes of moderate intensity aerobic activity each week. If you go for a half-hour jog every day, that’s enough to meet — and even beat — this requirement.

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The Dietary Guidelines also notes that doubling the amount of cardio exercise to 300 minutes of moderate exertion each week yields even more extensive health benefits.

So, what’s on the menu for “better health through exercise”? The well-researched benefits of jogging and other cardiovascular exercise include:

  • Weight loss
  • Increased stamina
  • A stronger immune system
  • Decreased risk of chronic diseases, including obesity, heart disease, hypertension, type 2 diabetes and some cancers
  • Help managing chronic conditions and improving quality of life
  • An improved cholesterol profile
  • A natural mood boost

Weight Bearing and Impact

Jogging is also a weight-bearing activity that can help you build and maintain strong bones in your lower body, as long as your bones, joints and muscles can handle the repeated impact of each footfall. If you know you have weakened bones or any other condition that might affect your ability to withstand a relatively high-impact exercise, speak to your doctor before jogging every day.

Some of the steps you can take to mitigate the impact of jogging include:

  • Wear supportive, well-cushioned footwear.
  • Run on softer surfaces — such as dirt or wood chips — instead of pavement or cement.
  • Warm up and stretch before you jog; then cool down and stretch after, to reduce your risk of injury.

You can also try “water jogging” in the pool, with a flotation belt to keep you above water. This gives you all the cardiovascular benefits of jogging, with none of the impact on your bones and joints.

Read more: The 8 Best Stretches to Do Before Running

A Note for Beginners

If you’re new to exercising, or new to a particular type of exercise, it’s typical at first to develop some soreness — so that is one of the effects you might experience when you first start jogging. The good news is that this type of muscle soreness typically fades within a few days, and as your body adapts to the new exercise the soreness is less likely to come back.

While a little soreness is typical, it doesn’t have to be intense. You can minimize the soreness by taking it relatively easy on your first jogs and gradually

READ MORE HERE:  https://www.livestrong.com/article/531257-the-effects-of-jogging-every-day/

The Most Laid-Back Guide to Going Vegetarian You’ll Ever Read by Matt Frazier

It went well and I had a great time, but in hindsight, I realize the topic I chose was a tough one.

I spoke about the “no-pressure approach” to vegetarianism that I take with No Meat Athlete. Instead of trying to persuade people that they should go vegetarian (and now, dammit!), I’d much rather just set an example that people can choose to follow or learn from if they’d like. I’ve just never been one for confrontation, and I hope my writing here reflects that.

But after I was done speaking, I thought to myself: Boy, that would have been so much easier if I had just talked about the same stuff I write on the site. 

And so I got to thinking — what’s the gist of my message?

That’s when I got the idea for a series of posts that I should have written long ago. This is the first post in that series, the heart of the message I want to spread about vegetarianism (future installments will be about running and healthy eating, I think).

And as it turns out, it’s pretty much a demo of what I talked about in NYC. So that works out. 🙂

“Should” you go vegetarian?

I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want you to go vegetarian or vegan. Compassion for animals was big part of my reason for doing so, and so I’d love it if nobody ate them.

But I’m not going to tell you what’s best for you. That’s for you to decide.

Is a plant-based diet healthier than an omnivorous one?

Tough one.

I believe I’m a lot healthier now that I’m vegan. It forces me to avoid fast food and countless other convenient, but unhealthy, foods that I used to eat. So in my mind, there’s no question that a well-planned plant-based diet is healthier than the standard (terrible) American diet.

But how about compared to a whole-foods diet that happens to include a small amount (say, 10% of calories) of meat, maybe a little dairy? Honestly, I’m not convinced that one is clearly healthier than the other.

There’s a lot of science that says a plant-based diet is better. And there are plenty of people who claim that this science is bunk.

To me, it’s not clear that one diet is necessarily healthier than the other. I’m fine to call it a tie. I just know that passing up a McDonald’s is way easier for me now than it was before I was vegetarian, and as a result, I make so much more of my own food than I used to, and eat so many more fruits and vegetables than before. For that aspect, I like it.

Is a plant-based diet better for sports?

I got faster when I went vegetarian, so much so that I took over 10 minutes off my previous marathon and qualified for Boston on my first attempt after I changed my diet.

But I also changed the way I trained, so I can’t say for sure how big a role each change played. I can say that I lost 5-10 pounds when I went vegetarian, and I believe that was a huge factor in getting faster.

Brendan Brazier and Scott Jurek have both told me they believe they recover from workouts better on a plant-based diet than on

READ MORE HERE:  https://www.nomeatathlete.com/relax-2/

Why You Should Find Time to Be Alone With Yourself By Micaela Marini Higgs

Don’t confuse loneliness with time by yourself.

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Being lonely hurts — it can even negatively impact your health. But the mere act of being alone with oneself doesn’t have to be bad, and experts say it can even benefit your social relationships, improve your creativity and confidence, and help you regulate your emotions so that you can better deal with adverse situations.

“It’s not that solitude is always good, but it can be good” if you’re open to rejecting the idea — common in the west — that time by yourself is always a negative experience you’re being forced into, according to Thuy-vy Nguyen, an assistant professor in the department of psychology at Durham University, who studies solitude.

“We have some evidence to show that valuing solitude doesn’t really hurt your social life, in fact, it might add to it,” she said, pointing out that because solitude helps us regulate our emotions, it can have a calming effect that prepares us to better engage with others.

Choosing to spend time doing things by yourself can

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https://www.nytimes.com/2019/10/28/smarter-living/the-benefits-of-being-alone.html

Weekly Horoscope Sunday, February 23, 2020 to Saturday, February 29,2020

All Signs

Here’s the lay of the land for this week. (Actually, it’s a picture of the skies, but we are down here on terra firma, aren’t we?) The Sun is in Pisces, Mercury Retrograde is also in Pisces, Venus is in Aries and Mars, Jupiter and Saturn are in Capricorn. I will touch lightly on each of these planets, with a special notice about Mercury Retrograde being in the dreamy sign of Pisces! This placement of Mercury Retrograde can trigger a situation where you are in error and you don’t even know it. This reminds of the time a Leo friend bemoaned, “I’m supposed to pick up my Mom up at the casino but she didn’t say which one and she doesn’t have a cell phone!”

Aries (March 21-April 19)

With Venus in your sign this week, it’s easy to be diplomatic and charming with everyone you meet. (This is also an excellent time for you to buy wardrobe treasures for yourself because you will like what you see in the mirror.) Admittedly, there are some conflicting energies at play for your sign because the Sun and Mercury Retrograde are hiding in your chart, which means you want to be low-key. This also promotes your ability to do research and study the past. However, your ruler Mars is at the top of your chart arousing your ambition! So, this is something you have to juggle. Fortunately, Venus will pave the way in all your dealings with others. Kiss, kiss; hug, hug.

Taurus (April 20-May 20)

You’re popular this week! Many of you are in a leadership role in groups and organizations. You are in touch with old friends from the past, which could be fun – or not. Secret love affairs are taking place for some of you. (You are such a sensuous, passionate sign!) Meanwhile, this gaggle of planets in your fellow Earth Sign is supportive to you! Saturn helps you to work hard. Whatever you do will come out well. Jupiter increases your enthusiasm and optimism for future plans; and Mars makes you want to travel. Mars and Jupiter together will also attract opportunities in publishing, the media, medicine and the law. Great time to go to school or sign up for a course. So many possibilities for your future!

Gemini (May 21-June 20)

This continues to be a powerful time for you because the Sun is at the top of your chart, which makes others admire you, especially bosses, parents and VIPs. Obviously, you can use this to advance your own agenda. Mercury Retrograde is also at the top of your chart, which is tricky! Mercury is your ruler. This means old issues with bosses and parents are back on your plate again but there is confusion about something. Meanwhile, Mars indicates you might have disputes about shared property, inheritances and the resources of others. Are these two influences related? Perhaps. Fortunately, fair Venus in your House of Friendship, creates smooth relations with others, especially creative, artistic people.

Cancer (June 21-July 22)

In some ways, this is a challenging time because the Sun is urging you to travel and explore new horizons and do something new to give your life some thrills and chills! Many of you are thinking about taking a course or going back to school. Issues related to medicine and the law interest you. However, in the midst of this, sits Mercury Retrograde! It’s like taking two steps forward then one step backwards. Your efforts to accomplish something will be delayed or frustrated. In addition, Mars opposite your sign makes you impatient with others. (Hmmm.) Your saving grace is that fair Venus is at the top of your chart smoothing your relations with bosses and parents. This is a good thing.

Leo (July 23-Aug. 22)

Currently, the placement of the Sun and Mercury Retrograde make you feel confused about financial matters, especially wills, estates, shared property, taxes and debt. This means you must do what you can to get back in control. Face these issues and get a handle on them. Sit up and be a person. As long as things are fuzzy in these areas, it will drag you down psychologically. When it comes to financial matters, information is power. Therefore, know what is going on with your finances! Fortunately, Mars will energize you to work hard and be efficient. (This is a pleasure.) Meanwhile, Venus wants you to travel and “get away from all this.” Yes!

Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22)

The Sun and Mercury Retrograde continue to be opposite your sign, which magnifies your focus on your closest relationships, friendships and partnerships. Obviously, Mercury Retrograde will attract ex-partners from the past back into your world. For some of you, this could be financially beneficial because this week you can benefit from the wealth and resources of others. People will give you things or do favours for you. You might even get a loan or finally wrap up the details about a mortgage. Meanwhile, back in the boudoir, this is a hot sexy week for you! Your gonads are in overdrive and you want to play! “More champagne?”

Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 22)

You are still in work mode because of the placement of the Sun and Mercury Retrograde. Of course, these two influences are often contrary to each other! The Sun will urge you to work hard and be as efficient as possible; whereas Mercury Retrograde will create delays, mistakes and confusion in your job and work. (Is there no justice?) On top of this, Mars triggers increased activity and chaos on the home front, which might bother you because you like your home to be harmonious and psychologically supportive. One blessing: Your ruler, fair Venus sits opposite your sign, which is the best position for all relationships. (Even with your enemies.) Whew!

Scorpio (Oct. 23-Nov. 21)

Ta da! This is a playful week! It’s a lovely time for romance, sports, socializing with others, enjoying playful activities with kids and escaping on a vacation. All the fun stuff! Nevertheless, these same areas are also under the influence of Mercury Retrograde. This means old flames are back in your life. Old issues with kids are also back on the table. Vacations might suffer from confusion with reservations and travel delays. Aagghh! Fortunately, issues related to your work are excellent! Coworkers are supportive. Expect praise from bosses. You might improve your work space. In addition, Mars now boosts your energy, accelerating your daily pace; but it also makes you opinionated and persuasive!

Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec. 21)

Your focus on home, family, parents and your private life continues to be strong this week. At times, Mercury Retrograde can really trip anyone up. But for you, right now, Mercury Retrograde will help you finish and wrap up lots of old details related to your home or family issues. It can help you delve into old stuff and get rid of what you no longer need. It will also help you tackle home repairs. This is good! You will definitely get time off for good behaviour because Venus encourages romance and fun socializing. Accept all invitations to party! Meanwhile, Mars inspires you to earn money (and admittedly, spend it). Ka-ching!

Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19)

You’re running around with an outboard motor on your butt but you’re getting a lot done! Unfortunately, even though the Sun and fiery Mars now energize your communications with others and give you the stimulus to get things done – Mercury Retrograde is also in the picture! Mercury Retrograde will cause transportation delays, car problems, missed buses, confusion with communications (cell phones and computers) and missed appointments. This can be maddening! Fortunately, Venus brings opportunities to entertain at home and redecorate your digs. Venus also promotes loving relations with family members. That’s nice.

Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18)

Money and cash flow continue to be a strong focus for you. At a deeper level, you are pondering your values in life. In other words, what really matters? You don’t want to be 90 years old, looking back and thinking to yourself, “You blew it!” Fortunately, Venus will ameliorate any problems in your life because it gives you rose-coloured glasses to look at your daily world. You will appreciate the beauty of your daily surroundings. You will also see how much love there is in your life. (Venus is your friend.) Meanwhile, Mars is stirring up problems behind the scenes. This means if you think someone out there might not have your best interests at heart – you’re right. Keep your eyes open!

Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20)

Well, this continues to be an interesting time for you because you are empowered and energizes with the Sun in your sign! This is a good thing. It will attract people and favourable situations to you. (We like!) However, Mercury Retrograde is also in your sign! This is like a magnet for goofy situations. Misplaced items, forgotten appointments, delays, little frustrations, confused communications, and a general sense of feeling disorganized will create obstacles for you. Because Mars is in your House of Friendships, be careful you don’t take your frustrations out on a friend. Chill out. Meanwhile, the good news is that Venus will attract money to you. It will also encourage you to buy beautiful things for yourself and loved ones. It might even attract new ways to earn money? Yes!